Why a mother loves her child ?
Because of the thought that her own,though she may love other children but not to the extent of her own child.
If that child selects a person of its own for marriage, the mother gets disturbed and hates the child at
least for some time
Why husband loves a wife or a wife loves a husband?
Because men and women has some expectation,demands to be satisfied with the help of the other.If any change in their expectation happens both will start reacting according to their own culture and brought up style.Some will be adjust, some exploits, some suppresses, and some divorce. Most of the people, in every relationship you can some see sort of adjustments,suppressions, conditions,exploitation,dominance,worries,male sovereignism,lack of appreciation,recognition,love and care etc.The basic cause for all worries and disappointments are due to lack of devotion,lack of proper parenting etc.All are busy in money making and losing their life in it itself.People think roaming out in a car that nobody have and all the comforts should be outstanding for them,if anyone grows above them they feel depressed .
Searching the happiness outside is not valid,we should attain it in the platform where we stand .Is there any one who has an unconditional love ,only very few who are enlightened.Common people think them as separate category who has no feelings but it is a misconcept.They are the people who realised the temporary nature of feelings either joy of sorrow.Through sadana they raise their thoughts from the body level to soul level.This understanding needs a keen study as this is very subtle.Only god can love us unconditionally. God means a sumtotal of living and nonliving beings.We should develop reading between the lines,in the same sense as the writer expresses.
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