An analysis of the problem is the first step towards its resolution. So if you are feeling bad about some part in your life, make sure the situation is not one of 10 reasons below, and if it does then it is you who have to take necessary measures. The will to resolve such situation is not with what we can do with others but what action we ourselves can take to correct them.
1) Because of Your Status- The rich takes the poor for granted and sometimes this happens across the communities too. You might feel that your race is more superior to other and this can go across the issues like color, sex etc. The feeling of superiority makes us believe in our strength and undermine the existence of other people. No society approves of such behavior and if you are one of the people who are affected than it is probably the right to take up and resolve it for others too.
2) Because of Your Position-Hierarchy exists almost everywhere including in corporate, school, colleges etc. Your level determines the kind of respect and attention you receive and also makes you prone to be taken for granted by others. Such situations require an understanding of the environment and an inward looking attitude to determine how you can stop others from affecting your lives.
3) Because You are Adjusting- Some people feel pain of others and are very adjustable in nature. This habit makes them more prone to be taken for granted by others. Sometimes it is the good people who suffer just because everyone feels that they can do no wrong but can endure anything. So if you have given enough space to people and they have not realized your true worth then it is time to let them know that you do exist
4) Because you are Emotional- Human Being is an emotional fool though intensity varies from one person to another. It is very easy to take emotional people for ride and get whatever you want from them. Generally emotional people are taken for granted just because their emotions are to fluid to make them realize that what wrong has been done to them. So if it has started to itch and you have got the feeling that somewhere something is not right then ask yourself if you are being taken for granted or not.
5) Because you Love them- It is much easy to love than be loved. And when you love someone it is selfless and forgiving in nature. Your heart can be pure but that does not guarantees that the person whom you love is either using you or has taken you for granted. Love makes you slave and it makes you prone to doing and acting in a manner that is not expected out of you. So, while you are still in love but believe you are not getting what you deserve then it is time to ask yourself some hard questions.
6) Because of your Fear- Fear is the weakness that has broken many people in his world. Fear has made people do stuff which is contrary to their nature. It is the fear inside you that can make people drive you in a certain way and take you for granted. It is always advisable to run towards your fear and conquer them. The more you let it go over you, the more it will make your life a living hell.
7) Because they know your Secrets- Secret is your slave till the time it is in your heart. It start to rule from the point other people get to know about the secret. It cannot be termed as blackmail just because other person may never mention it to you. But still you end up doing everything and enduring every situation just because you know that someone knows something important about you. On other hand it also gives other people an option to take you for granted just because you are defenseless. A good solution in such situations is to face the truth and be ready for its consequences.
8) Because you think they are Superior- Some people think that they are superior and at times we make them believe they are. Look around and you would find that even your best friend can be living with this kind of false feeling. It is this habit that makes people do things which is not expected from them and they even can take you for granted. So if you happen to currently face such situation then it is right time to give some reality check to the other person.
9) Because you want them Badly- The need to posses a person or a thing sometimes becomes so important that it makes us weak and prone to be taken for granted by other people. Sometimes things just go inside our head and it seems that we cannot live even a single minute till the time we posses it. Our need makes other believe that they can do whatever they want to at our expense. So if you a person who is giving other people an opportunity to take you for granted then it is right time to control your urges and acquire the things the natural way.
10) Because of their Short Sightedness- Last but not the least; there are genres of people who are shortsighted enough to realize the importance of things that holds a potential value. You may have a rocking idea or proposal but just because you are beginner does not gives someone a right to take you for granted. Such situations reflect the short sightedness of people and how success has gone into their head. Refuse to be with the people and carve out respect for yourself because no one control your destiny except you.
Everything that happens to you is in your hands. Looking out or seeking help makes you weak. The fight almost always is till the time we take the first step.
Rest is always a journey that is loaded with experience to make you wise. So if in life you have a slightest feeling of being taken for granted and not given the due respect then it is the time to seek change. Control your life, it is yours, others can be part of it but could not posses it. Enjoy life and respect your emotions. You deserve to live every minute of it.
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