Monday, May 28, 2012

Tips For A Peaceful Married Life

                               
1) Both of you should not be angry at the same time
2) When the atmosphere at home is fragile don’t shout at each other
3) Both of you are wife and husbands. So who ever wins in argument it means you’ve also won.
4) Don’t dig the past
5) It doesn’t matter if you don’t bother about the world but you should not neglect each other
6) Appreciate each other at least once in a day. Is there any person who dislikes appreciations???
7) Criticism should be loving and friendly
8) Accept if you commit a mistake and ask for apology
9) Word for word will lead to fights. Be reserved, use your words limitedly.
10) Don’t sleep until you find a solution for an issue or when there is no common opinion regarding an argument.
11) Be independent.
12) Throw your ego's
13) Understand each other for ever
14) Don't lose your temper if one does mistake.

 15)   Don't suspect about other
 16) Keep friendly relationship


                       The husband and wife are the partners for life time as they not only share their bed between them but they also share their joys, sorrows, emotions and experiences to make their life happy and prosper.
                 This relationship is based upon certain ethics which both the husband and wife should always keep in mind. These things are very useful to make their life happy as well as peaceful.

Both the husband and the wife:

*should be patient to each other.
*should not be a tyrant towards their spouse
*should never be emotionally, mentally, or physically abusive to each other.
*should be careful of their words as words may hurt severely.
*should show affection and appreciation to each other’s work.
*should work together in the house.
*should forget past problems and live simply.
*should respect their feelings regarding physical relationship.
*should be mindful of their discussions.
*should have meals together as this enhances love in their relationship.
*should admit their mistakes, if any, and promise not do repeat it again.
                   If the two counterparts of this relationship wish to make their live and love more meaningful, they must take these points more seriously as these are proven in real life situations.


              There is no great teacher than life. It will teach us everything. But some times things slip away from our hands by the time life teaches us and we can’t turn back the things. By knowing our simple mistakes and defects we can make lead a happy, loving and wonderful life. No one cares to study an article like this if we learn everything from life :)

Don’t expect your spouse to be perfect

                           Your spouse is not an ideal creation of God and all human beings indeed have imperfections. Don’t put up your expectations straight on your spouse.

                     If you think about expecting perfect stuff from your spouse always, then ask yourself if you are are perfect. See how much perfect stuff you give out.
Everybody has their own plus and minus. Be realistic in whatever you expect from your spouse

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